Grief Counselling for Bloggers悲傷輔導博客

Every now and then you hear of someone who has lost.每個現在，然後你聽到某人誰輸了。 You hear of the crying, the wailing, the gnashing of teeth (teeth will be provided for those without).你聽到的哭了，哭的gnashing的牙齒（牙齒將提供給那些沒有） 。 They can sink in to a seemingly interminable depression and all because they forgot to set a secondary email address to retrieve their lost login details.他們可以匯到一個看似無休止的抑鬱症，因為他們忘記了設置的次要電子郵件地址找回失去的登錄信息。

You never think it will happen to you or your family.你永遠不認為這會發生在你身上或你的家人。 But, it does.但是，這並不。 In fact, more than one in three of us are likely to forget a password or worse still a username before the year is out.事實上，不止一個在我們三個人有可能忘記了密碼或更糟的用戶名前一年了。 Others will remember their password, but have forgotten which email address was associated with their account and so be left with the same sense of loss.其他會記住他們的密碼，但忘記了它的電子郵件地址是與他們的帳戶，因此被以同樣的失落感。

It can happen to emailers, bankers, tweeters, pokers, bloggers, even Orkut addicts.它可以發生在emailers ，銀行家，高音，撲克，博客，甚至Orkut的成癮者。

When you have tried all possible combinations of your kids’ names, memorable dates, mother’s maiden names and have gone cross-eyed trying to read captchas it really is time to let go.當您嘗試了所有可能的組合您的孩子的名字，難忘的日期，母親的婚前姓名和已經斗眼嘗試讀取captchas真的是時候放開。 I should know, it happened to me when I lost a beloved Gmail name early on.我應該知道，它發生在我身上，我失去了心愛的Gmail的名稱早。 I registered the address, forgot to give it the love and attention it needed, and it was only when I really needed it that I realized it was gone.我註冊的地址，忘了給它的喜愛和關心它需要，而且只有當我真正需要它，我意識到這是不見了。 No amount of hacking or cracking can ever bring it back.任何數量的黑客或開裂都不能將其帶回。

The same kind of grief can strike at other times in your online life too.同樣的悲痛罷工可以在其他時間在您的網上生活過。 You may be running a lively little blog, its keywords gamboling up the SERPs like a newborn lamb.你可以運行一個生動的小博客，其關鍵字gamboling了SERPs像一個新生羔羊。 Then all of a sudden that most insidious of diseases hits, toolbar dropsy.然後突然的最陰險的疾病安打，工具欄水腫。 One minute your little green vital signs are emeraldine and growing, maybe you were 4, 5, even 6 long.一分鐘你的小綠色生命體徵的聚苯胺和日益增長的，也許你是第4 ，第5 ，甚至第6長。 But, the big G wields its cruel cyberscalpel and slashes you back to 2 or 3 at a stroke, you may never recover.但是，大G掌握其殘忍cyberscalpel和斜線你回到第2或第3的中風，你可能永遠不會恢復。

Worse, you may find you’ve been sandboxed or been filtered from the results altogether.更糟糕的是，你會發現你已經sandboxed或已篩選的結果了。 It doesn’t seem to matter what color your hat - black, gray, or sky-blue pink with orange spots.這似乎並沒有不管你的帽子的顏色-黑色，灰色，或天藍色的粉紅色，橙色點。 The only chance of a remission is if you got a benign唯一的機會了緩解，如果你有良性 malware惡意軟件 and can persuade Google that you’ve given your site virtual antibiotics and are now clean.並能說服谷歌，您給您的網站的虛擬抗生素，現在乾淨。 Recovery can take weeks, even months.恢復可能要花幾週，甚至幾個月的時間。

Same too if you follow your同樣，如果你也按照你的 feedcount , it can be slowly climbing for weeks, when one day it drops like a stone. ，可以慢慢爬幾個星期，當有一天它滴像一塊石頭。 You feel abandoned, alone, and edgy paranoia bites.你覺得被遺棄，單獨和鋒利的偏執狂咬。 What did I do?什麼怎麼辦？ Why have they all abandoned me?為什麼他們都放棄我嗎？ Will they ever come back?他們將以往任何時候都回來？

Thankfully, feedcount deficiency is a temporary but episodic illness, it comes and goes.值得慶幸的是， feedcount缺乏是一個臨時但偶發疾病，它來得快，去。 On good days you’re high with all the ranking, but each morning as you press that refresh button your heart is pounding as the chicklet blinks off and back on.良好的天您與所有高的排名，但每個早晨你新聞界說，刷新按鈕，你的心是衝擊的chicklet閃動起飛和返回。 If the count is down, then so are you, if it’s up, then a short burst of euphoria hits, at least until you read the multiple injuries inflicted by qwitter, the twitter unfollow program.如果指望下跌，那麼你是，如果它的行動，那麼短暫興奮安打，至少直到你讀了多發傷造成qwitter的嘰嘰喳喳unfollow計劃。

But, take heart, you will get through it.但是，採取的心，你會得到通過。 We’ve all been there at some time in our lives.我們都已經有一段時間在我們生活中。 Whether it’sa slashed PR, that forgotten login for a cobweb site, a bipolar feedcount, or simply your best friend unfriending you on Facebook.無論是削減公關，即忘記登錄了蜘蛛網的網站，兩極feedcount ，或只是你最好的朋友unfriending你在Facebook 。 Be strong, move on.強勁，繼續前進。 You can always login another day.您可以隨時登錄另一天。