Grief Counselling for Bloggers悲伤辅导博客

Every now and then you hear of someone who has lost.每个现在，然后你听到某人谁输了。 You hear of the crying, the wailing, the gnashing of teeth (teeth will be provided for those without).你听到的哭了，哭的gnashing的牙齿（牙齿将提供给那些没有） 。 They can sink in to a seemingly interminable depression and all because they forgot to set a secondary email address to retrieve their lost login details.他们可以汇到一个看似无休止的抑郁症，因为他们忘记了设置的次要电子邮件地址找回失去的登录信息。

You never think it will happen to you or your family.你永远不认为这会发生在你身上或你的家人。 But, it does.但是，这并不。 In fact, more than one in three of us are likely to forget a password or worse still a username before the year is out.事实上，不止一个在我们三个人有可能忘记了密码或更糟的用户名前一年了。 Others will remember their password, but have forgotten which email address was associated with their account and so be left with the same sense of loss.其他会记住他们的密码，但忘记了它的电子邮件地址是与他们的帐户，因此被以同样的失落感。

It can happen to emailers, bankers, tweeters, pokers, bloggers, even Orkut addicts.它可以发生在emailers ，银行家，高音，扑克，博客，甚至Orkut的成瘾者。

When you have tried all possible combinations of your kids’ names, memorable dates, mother’s maiden names and have gone cross-eyed trying to read captchas it really is time to let go.当您尝试了所有可能的组合您的孩子的名字，难忘的日期，母亲的婚前姓名和已经斗眼尝试读取captchas真的是时候放开。 I should know, it happened to me when I lost a beloved Gmail name early on.我应该知道，它发生在我身上，我失去了心爱的Gmail的名称早。 I registered the address, forgot to give it the love and attention it needed, and it was only when I really needed it that I realized it was gone.我注册的地址，忘了给它的喜爱和关心它需要，而且只有当我真正需要它，我意识到这是不见了。 No amount of hacking or cracking can ever bring it back.任何数量的黑客或开裂都不能将其带回。

The same kind of grief can strike at other times in your online life too.同样的悲痛罢工可以在其他时间在您的网上生活过。 You may be running a lively little blog, its keywords gamboling up the SERPs like a newborn lamb.你可以运行一个生动的小博客，其关键字gamboling了SERPs像一个新生羔羊。 Then all of a sudden that most insidious of diseases hits, toolbar dropsy.然后突然的最阴险的疾病安打，工具栏水肿。 One minute your little green vital signs are emeraldine and growing, maybe you were 4, 5, even 6 long.一分钟你的小绿色生命体征的聚苯胺和日益增长的，也许你是第4 ，第5 ，甚至第6长。 But, the big G wields its cruel cyberscalpel and slashes you back to 2 or 3 at a stroke, you may never recover.但是，大G掌握其残忍cyberscalpel和斜线你回到第2或第3的中风，你可能永远不会恢复。

Worse, you may find you’ve been sandboxed or been filtered from the results altogether.更糟糕的是，你会发现你已经sandboxed或已筛选的结果了。 It doesn’t seem to matter what color your hat - black, gray, or sky-blue pink with orange spots.这似乎并没有不管你的帽子的颜色-黑色，灰色，或天蓝色的粉红色，橙色点。 The only chance of a remission is if you got a benign唯一的机会了缓解，如果你有良性 malware恶意软件 and can persuade Google that you’ve given your site virtual antibiotics and are now clean.并能说服谷歌，您给您的网站的虚拟抗生素，现在干净。 Recovery can take weeks, even months.恢复可能要花几周，甚至几个月的时间。

Same too if you follow your同样，如果你也按照你的 feedcount , it can be slowly climbing for weeks, when one day it drops like a stone. ，可以慢慢爬几个星期，当有一天它滴像一块石头。 You feel abandoned, alone, and edgy paranoia bites.你觉得被遗弃，单独和锋利的偏执狂咬。 What did I do?什么怎么办？ Why have they all abandoned me?为什么他们都放弃我吗？ Will they ever come back?他们将以往任何时候都回来？

Thankfully, feedcount deficiency is a temporary but episodic illness, it comes and goes.值得庆幸的是， feedcount缺乏是一个临时但偶发疾病，它来得快，去。 On good days you’re high with all the ranking, but each morning as you press that refresh button your heart is pounding as the chicklet blinks off and back on.良好的天您与所有高的排名，但每个早晨你新闻界说，刷新按钮，你的心是冲击的chicklet闪动起飞和返回。 If the count is down, then so are you, if it’s up, then a short burst of euphoria hits, at least until you read the multiple injuries inflicted by qwitter, the twitter unfollow program.如果指望下跌，那么你是，如果它的行动，那么短暂兴奋安打，至少直到你读了多发伤造成qwitter的叽叽喳喳unfollow计划。

But, take heart, you will get through it.但是，采取的心，你会得到通过。 We’ve all been there at some time in our lives.我们都已经有一段时间在我们生活中。 Whether it’sa slashed PR, that forgotten login for a cobweb site, a bipolar feedcount, or simply your best friend unfriending you on Facebook.无论是削减公关，即忘记登录了蜘蛛网的网站，两极feedcount ，或只是你最好的朋友unfriending你在Facebook 。 Be strong, move on.强劲，继续前进。 You can always login another day.您可以随时登录另一天。